Have a deeper mind in yourself !!!!!!

It is difficult knowing who is right for you and who is wasting

your time, who is trustworthy and who is unstable or even dangerous. We try to apply logic to the situation,

and that helpw. But most of us in the dating world find that we are

perfectly capable of making terrible mistakes and of caring quite

deeply about someone who has few redeeming features or who just

isn’t a good fit for us.

Friends can tell you what they believe about the situation and

what they find is true for them; a therapist can tell you guidelines

about relationships in general. Family members can tell you what

they hope you will find in life.

What you need, though, is someone who knows your secrets,

your emotional nature, your history of sabotage, your fear of intimacy,

and your fear of winding up alone. You need someone who

is absolutely and unreservedly on your side, who agrees that a

solid, loving relationship is worth the quest..

In the pursuit of finding and nourishing love, you should take

advantage of all the advocates, advisers, and supporters you can

find, but the one resource you absolutely must take advantage of is your deeper mind. This part of your psyche takes in volumes

of information, even subtle or subliminal clues; it recognizes

patterns sometimes in an instant; and it knows and understands

your personality without judgment and the ways your quirks and

your strengths impact your style of relating and your approach

to love.

The bottom line is that the deeper mind is one of your most

accurate and potent advisers, and it tends to speak to you through

your dreams and your intuition...