It has been a long time...
since I last came on here and wrote something.....
but yesterday I was provoked by sum of my friends to write something on a particular song (kal ho na ho) i know it might sound a bit funny and challenging....how can i write something with reference to some lyrics....bt yes ma friend told me to elaborate on some lyrics of that song.......soo i m tryin my best to elaborate on those lines....
Lyrics:
"Chaahe Jo tumhe poore dil se
Milta hai woh mushkil se
Aisa Jo koi kahin hai
Bas vahi sabse hasin hai"
These lines are all about them who loves you a lot....with all his/her open heart.....If there is someone in your life as such...That's the real way to happiness....Make her/him part of your life...
Now, this is the nice chance to say it all to my better half...
It is important that the person I love remembers that I did not forget him. That I love her just as much.. or even more then the day before ...
Even though I dont always show it I am always greatful that you are here with me, or when I can just hear the sound of your voice....
I know I can be stupid, or even a pain in the ass at times ...
But generally overall I just love you even if I do not show you that at times...
I do not have one bad feeling towards you at or in my heart ...
Sometimes I say awfull things, but that just means I lost my way... and lost the right words that belong to describe you....
Because if I would realise how awfull those words were which I was saying I would stop saying them.... Because even though you hurt me sometimes ... you are a lagoon of happiness in my life... and I would never want to loose you.... That is because I love you so much ...
Another reason why I should never be unkind to you is because you do not desereve any unkindness, or hardship in life.....after all you are the only one who can really make me feel myself...i can laugh with u...cry with...n above all...i can be in your arms which actually make me feel like am at home...
Because I just want your life to be full of light, love and happiness...
Let me just hope that lies with me.... your happiness... because I know my happiness is wherever you are... wherever you go and whenever I hear you speak....
Because no matter where I am... when I am in your arms I am home...
I love you....Chinu ♥♥(Now that's a secret....only my better half can guess it right....:-PPP)
A long distance relationship is a special type of relationship, there's no other relationship quite like it. it's funny how a lot of people never seem to understand it and always look down upon it,thinking tht it's not a "real" relationship - what people fail to realise is than in a LDR, the bond you share with your significant other is incredibly strong (it has to be strong for it to last). That bond is special, it's not like what you have in a physical relationship. when the person can be right beside you. It's rewarding in the sense that there are moments in the relationship when you think about just how close you and your significant other are but at the time, you can be so far apart, even thousands of miles..
In a LDR, physical attraction cannot sustain a relationship...instead, it's the emotional and mental attraction and attachment between the two people that make it successful. It's a whole lot of hardwork when all you have are words,pictures, and occasionally phone calls/video chats. its where you can't just get by....you actually have to make effort to make things work..
Time is never on your side and it never feels that there is quite enough of it, especially with the time difference and distance is truly a bitch. Love,trust,understanding, and patience are tested on a daily basis in a LDR - only the presence of these in ample amounts will see the hard times through.
There are so many challenges and obstacles that must be overcome but it's also something that's very rewading because you share something with your significant other that is completely different from anything else you've experienced before and it is at another level compared to any other type of relationship.
Nobody ever 'choose' to be in LDR, it just 'happens'. People in these relationship arent lonely, have lives, and arent desperate. They dont go for something like this because they just want a person to like/love them - if somebody wanted that, there are much easier ways of getting it. When two people are absolutely perfect for each other, nobody else is good enough or worth the time, and if that person unfortunately lives half way across the world, then a LDR is bound to be formed.
In cicumstances like these,you realise that physical attraction is so insignificant compared to the connection the two people share. Even if the other person is oceans apart from you, the love between the two people can bridge any gap, whether it be a 3 hours drive of 15 hour plane ride away.
So yeah, thats 2 cents on a quite personal matter.
To those currently in LDRs, perhaps you'll understand what i am trying to say and i wish you the best of luck.
To those contemplating whether or not it's worth it - it is one of the best things you will ever experience.
To those that look down upon it, maybe it's time to become more open-minded to some things?????
